How do I start manifesting? (Hint: You already are)
Let me let you in on a cosmic little secret…
You’ve already been manifesting your whole life. Yep, even the chaos. Even the ex you wish you could un-meet. Even the slow barista when you’re late.
Manifestation isn’t something you start – it’s something you become conscious of.
Because here’s the thing: your reality is a mirror of your energy. Your beliefs. Your identity. Your daily habits. Your emotional baseline. It’s not just about what you want – it’s about who you’re being.
So if you’re ready to start manifesting on purpose – in full technicolour, sparkle-coated, main character mode – here’s your no-fluff starter guide.
1. Get clear on what you actually want
Here’s the deal: you can’t manifest a life you love if you’re secretly manifesting someone else’s Pinterest board.
Not your mum’s white-picket-fence fantasy. Not your ex’s idea of success. Not what Instagram told you was #goals.
What do you want, angel?
Like, deep in your bones.
The kind of desire that makes your chest flutter, your eyes water, and your inner child scream, “YES, FINALLY.”
This is where we stop settling. This is where we dream bigger. Bolder. Wilder.
Your desires aren’t random. They’re your divine roadmap. Let them lead.
Here's how to tap into your soul-led desires:
✧ What does your dream day look like?
Start from the moment you open your eyes. What do your sheets feel like? What’s the first thing you smell, hear, do?
Are you waking up in a sun-drenched beach villa in Tulum? In your own home with a view of the ocean? Alone, or with a lover gently rubbing your back?
✧ How do you feel in your body?
Strong? Sensual? Energised? At peace? Your body is your first home – how do you want to live in it?
✧ What’s the energy of your relationships?
Are your friendships wildly supportive and soul-nourishing? Are you loved out loud by a partner who celebrates your magic? Are you the one sending voice notes with breakthroughs and laughing until your belly hurts over wine?
✧ What does your bank account say?
Not just the number – but the vibe. Overflow? Freedom? Guilt-free indulgence? Do you trust money to support you like a devoted bestie?
✧ Where are you in the world? Who are you with?
What textures are around you? What music is playing? Are you in silk or linen or covered in glitter? (Yes, aesthetics are a spell. Cast wisely.)
✨ Journal prompts to crack you open:
If I wasn’t scared, I would ask for…
I would feel most alive if I could…
My inner child wishes I would finally…
I secretly dream of a life where…
2. Embody the version of you who already has it
This is where things go from “vision board” to vibrational match.
Because manifestation? It’s not about begging. It’s about becoming.
You have to be her before you see her.
The version of you who already has the love, the house, the six-figure launch, the dream body, the dream life – she’s not waking up in desperation.
She’s waking up in certainty.
She’s choosing from a menu of miracles and saying, “I’ll have that, please.”
Ask yourself:
How does she walk into a room? (Hint: with hips that say “I’m the one.”)
What energy does she bring to conversations? (Is it calm confidence or frazzled people-pleasing?)
What does she say no to, even if it’s uncomfortable?
How does she spend her money, time, and energy?
What kind of self-talk does she use on the daily?
✨ Your next level doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from choosing different.
Every time you act from your current reality, you reinforce it.
But every time you choose from the reality you're creating – that’s a portal. That’s a shift. That’s quantum AF.
Think of it like online shopping for your life.
You’ve placed the order. The dream apartment, the aligned partner, the bank balance with commas. You don’t refresh the tracking page every 10 minutes. You don’t chase the postman barefoot. You trust it’s coming. You act like it’s done.
And in the meantime? You do your skincare, light your candle, sip your cacao and live your damn life. That version of you isn’t waiting. She’s already aligned. She’s not available for crumbs. She’s already rearranged her closet to make space for the new. She is the embodiment of it is done.
So let’s be clear:
Manifestation isn’t about chasing. It’s about collapsing time through identity. You don’t wait to feel worthy. You decide you are now.
Journal prompt:
If it was already mine, what would I do differently today?
3. Remove the energetic blocks
Okay, now we get to the part no one posts on Instagram.
Because if your manifestations are stuck in the cosmic group chat and not showing up on your doorstep, it’s not because the universe ghosted you — it’s because there’s static in your signal.
Think:
Old limiting beliefs from childhood
Ancestral patterns you never agreed to
Wounds from that time you were told you’re “too much” or “not enough”
Subconscious fears that still think success = rejection
Energetic ties to past lovers, jobs, friendships, identities
You are not broken.
But there may be a younger version of you running the show — and she’s still trying to feel safe.
This is where real manifestation happens: inside.
You can’t just say pretty affirmations if your nervous system is screaming “nope.” You can’t layer ‘good vibes only’ over unhealed trauma and expect a miracle.
This is the shadow work. The somatic healing. The subconscious reprogramming.
It’s meeting the part of you that doesn’t yet believe it’s safe to have everything you want — and letting her know: it is now.
Ask yourself:
What part of me doesn’t feel safe or worthy receiving this?
What story am I still believing that needs to go?
Because baby, the universe will never withhold your desires — but your beliefs might.
4. Align your actions with your desire
Now that you’ve cleared the signal, it’s time to move.
And not from the old you, but from the version of you who already has it.
You say you want the 6-figure business, the soulmate, the radiant health —
But are you still:
Undercharging and over-delivering?
Texting people who drain your energy?
Staying in jobs or habits that keep you small?
Saying “maybe” when your body’s screaming “hell no”?
Wanting a new reality but operating from the old one is self-sabotage in a sparkly outfit.
This doesn’t mean burning your whole life down (unless you want to).
It means micro-moves with major frequency:
Clean your room like a rich bitch would.
Raise your prices like you believe you’re worth it.
Walk into the coffee shop like your soulmate might be there.
Book the solo trip. Make the TikTok. Email the podcast.
Take one action today that aligns with the you you’re becoming.
Because every choice is a vote for the version of you you’re calling in.
Every boundary, every brave yes, every soul-led no — that’s the work.
Manifestation = energy + aligned action + timing
You bring the energy.
You take the aligned steps.
And you let the universe work the “how” behind the scenes.
(Yes, even if it looks like nothing’s happening. Especially then.)
Journal prompts:
What would the version of me who already has it do today?
What’s one action I’ve been avoiding that future-me would already have handled?
Where am I saying yes to what I actually want to say no to
5. Surrender and stay in the vibe
Here’s the bit most people skip — and the reason their manifestations ghost them.
Once you’ve set the intention, embodied the version of you who already has it, and taken aligned action…
You let go.
Not like “whatever, I don’t care” — but like “I trust the Universe more than my control issues.”
Because babe, you can’t white-knuckle your way into magic.
You can’t micromanage divine timing.
You can’t beg and doubt and obsess your way into overflow.
You surrender because you know the universe is already shifting behind the scenes.
You relax into the knowing that what’s meant for you is already yours.
You stay in the vibe not because you’re trying to “stay high vibe,” but because you’re protecting your peace like your life depends on it. (Spoiler: it kind of does.)
What does surrender actually look like?
Turning your phone on Do Not Disturb and dancing to Beyoncé.
Making art. Resting. Walking barefoot.
Crying when you need to cry. Laughing when the moment hits.
Choosing joy even when the 3D isn’t “proving” anything yet.
Coming back to your nervous system, your breath, your body.
Speaking your truth, even if your voice shakes.
Living your damn life like it’s already done.
Because the version of you who knows it’s happening?
She’s not spiralling over timelines or stalking her bank balance.
She’s too busy being magnetic, taking care of her energy, and making room for miracles.
🌈 Your only job is to stay in the vibe of your vision.
Let your frequency be your flex.
Let trust be your superpower.
Let joy be your portal.
TL;DR: Manifestation starts when you remember who you are.
You’re not just a woman with big dreams.
You are a walking spell. A living portal. A divine force of creation in heels (or barefoot in your garden).
You don’t have to prove your worth. You already are worthy. You just forgot.
Now? You remember.
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